Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Quick thoughts on the opposite sex

Women are one of lifes greatest achievements. I Always hear my friends, people, say things like "Oh shes way out of his league" or way out of "their league". Rubbish. You are as good as you think you are. Yes im talking about confidence. If you have it, women will follow. There is however, a huge difference in confidence vs. cockiness. Cockiness is usually implied with assholes and women dont like them. If youre wondering what the difference is, well, one quietly exists and the other is kind of a desperate plea for attention.

Regardless, there is a great movie that covers this topic, albeit somewhat indirectly. The movie follows an overweight, not exactly 'ugly', but pretty witty guy who bones chiks left and right. The movie is called "The Tao of Steve". Look into it. The actual Tao of Steve is a set of principles that are designed to obtain women that you would not normally be able to.

Rule 1: Be desireless. Women are intuitive creatures. If you dont already know this then..nevermind. Anyway, a hot chik expects every guy she meets to want to fuck her. She expects this because she has been conditioned. 99% of the guys she meets want to fuck her, and theyre blatently obvious about it. This turns them off instantly. As soon as they sense it, by your look, tone, whatever, they subconciously/unconciously/conciously LOSE interest. So eliminate all feelings of desire and TRULY eliminate them.

Rule 2: Be excellent in her presence. Once youve eliminated your desire, now you have to prove your sexual worthiness. Basically, impress her. Doesnt have to be an athletic type of achievement, or saving someones life. Thats not realistic. Be Creative. You can be morally excellent in her presence as well. ie.-help a total stranger, be good with kids, etc, just impress her.

Rule 3: Retreat. Basically, "play hard to get". Once the woman has become intrigued, now is the time to retreat. Women are fickle and silly. Dating them is a game. Yes, a game. And im teaching you how to play way out of your league. I know girls that have completely lost interest in a guy once they found out he liked her, even though they were OBSESSED over him the day before. Remember this.

Keep in mind this is mostly for the average guy that wants to date hot girls. If youre goodlooking and get them anyway, well, this can still work, probably even more effectively. Im fortunate enough that women usually notice me before I notice them, but using this tactic has still proven very effective. Is this shallow? I guess. Us men are at a disadvantage. Biologically. You see, we are designed to be constantly horny. An unnattractive girl following the above rules would most likely not obtain the same result as a guy. This is because women are not bound by these biological weaknesses. In other words, a beautiful woman can become attracted to an ugly man off his personality alone. In this regard, personality, charm, wittiness, basically the ability to make her LAUGH is far more important than looks in the game of romance. Combine looks and the previous ability.. lethal. My only advice is be QUIETLY confident.. the women will follow.

First entry..

Hmm so I have finally comformed to the latest in online trendiness. Blogs. But I have to admit there is something appealing about an online journal. Something of an outlet? Who knows. But it would be pointless unless I were entirely candid? Right? So for the purpose of integrity and entertainment I am going to keep myself and all peoples that I mention anonymous..

My life is.. dull? no. feckless? kinda.

I am a student at a community college in california. Although this was my last semester I think.. I dont have a major in mind so I am not motivated by school. At all. Its been like this since 8th grade I believe. Fortunately Im one of those people that is smart enough to get by on basic knowledge. You know those people, dont take notes, fuck around, dont listen, show up and get a B somehow. Thats me. Except for math, I mean how the hell am I supposed to just KNOW how to do formulas and algebraic equations without studying them? at all? cant. Thats why math has been fucking me since 8th grade. yikes.

So here I am failed all of my classes this semester..yeah I stopped showing up. Ive been in 'college' now for two years, four semesters. I guess I graduated in girls, poker, and jiu-jitsu. haha. Yeah I train brazilian jiu-jitsu and have been since senior year high school, 2 years exactly now. Im glad I found JJ. I dont know what the fuck else I would do to keep in shape if it werent for Jiu jitsu..

As for poker. yikes. what a stressfull goddamn job. Ive made around 3500$ over the last few months and lost probably 1200-1500$. Unfortunately I live way too decadently. I piss money away. Mostly on good food (i eat very healthy, with the exception of some munchy binges) some clothes, and weed. Yeah in california its hard to avoid smoking. If you smoke weed and you live in cali, you know what I mean. Im from the east coast, and the bud isnt comparable by any means. Seriously. The weed in cali is ridiculous. I mean they have fucking medical clubs that you can walk in to and buy name brand weed. Crazy. Theres an absurd amount of these clubs too. All over the place, at least 10 in the small city that im living in. Anyway, I really have to go the bathroom (yeah to take a shit, im a guy, deal with it). I will continue to post on this blog thing. Im just not sure what.